The #1 Reason Marriages Struggle — and How to Solve It
AÂ marriage changing workshop to help you reconnect, repair after hurt, and feel close again.
You’ve tried to fix it. You’ve tried to stay calm. You’ve tried to move on.
But if you keep ending up in the same place — stuck and disconnected — it’s time for something different.
This class gives you a clear, proven process to reconnect — even in the hardest moments.
Workshop
In this live workshop, you’ll discover the most common reason couples feel stuck and discouraged in their relationship. You’ll also learn a practical, step-by-step framework to bring fun, connection, and passion back into your marriage. Walk away with a clear plan to reconnect, repair after hurt, and create the kind of emotional closeness you've been longing for. Space is limited, so grab your spot today.
Coaching
Work with me directly through personalized coaching sessions designed for your specific relationship. If you're stuck in arguments, drifting apart, or just need a new way forward, this process will help. Together, we’ll identify the root of your dynamic, apply the Connection Framework, and create new patterns that bring more closeness, clarity, and hope. Coaching includes weekly sessions, guided tools, and real support.
Course
This self-paced online course helps you break the cycle of conflict and build a relationship that feels safe, connected, and strong. You'll learn to recognize your pattern, communicate with clarity, and repair emotional disconnect. The course walks you through a proven framework used by hundreds of couples to rebuild trust and deepen intimacy. Whether you go through it alone or with your spouse, you’ll find tools that really work.
Meet Brett Nikula — Your Marriage Coach
I’m a licensed therapist, marriage coach, and dad of seven who helps couples build strong, emotionally connected relationships that last. What I teach isn’t theory — it’s the exact framework that helped my wife and me reconnect in the middle of our own struggles. Now, I’ve taught it to thousands of couples who want to move from conflict to connection. If you care about your marriage but feel stuck, I’d love to help you find a better way forward.
Ever Feel Like You’re in the Same Conflict Again and Again?
You’re not imagining it — most conflict patterns follow a predictable cycle.
Take this 2-minute quiz to discover your unique conflict style and understand what’s really going on underneath the surface.
Link to your partner to learn about their style too — then compare your results and get one step closer to what’s at the root of your disconnection.
What Other Couples Are Saying
Course Participant
"Brett’s course helped us go from constant frustration to finally feeling heard and connected again. I had no idea how much our cycle was keeping us from reconnecting."
1:1 Client
"I started working with Brett after months of feeling stuck. Every session gave us deeper insight and tools that actually worked. We’re finally able to talk without spiraling."
1:1 Client
"I couldn’t figure out why we kept ending up in the same argument. Brett helped us break the cycle, and our connection has totally shifted. We’re closer than we’ve been in years."
"So many couples do love each other. They really care for each other. They just haven't learned the skills to find each other when confusion hits. To repair when hurt occurs. To reassure when worry sets in. The good news is that this is a SKILL they can learn."
-Brett Nikula, LMFT and Certified Relationship Coach
Want To Know #1 Reason Why Marriages Struggle?
More importantly — want to know how thrive?
In just 45 minutes, you’ll learn what’s really behind the disconnection in your relationship — and how to move forward together.
