ABOUT BRETT
I'm a marriage coach for business owners.
And a licensed marriage and family therapist. I help business owners break the conflict cycle at home and enjoy the marriage, the business, and the life they've built.
Both are free. Pick the one that fits where you are.
Licensed marriage & family therapist
1,400+ client hours a month at my practice
20+ years of building, growing,
and selling businesses
Married 13 years to Kelsey
Father of 8
WHO I WORK WITH
If this sounds like you, you're in the right place.
I built this for one specific person. The one who can lead a team, build a business, and still feels like nothing seems to land at home.
✓ You love each other, but the same fight keeps showing up in different words.
✓ You're hitting business milestones and you can't feel any of it.
✓ You've tried books. Maybe therapy. Nothing has actually changed the pattern.
✓ You're a business owner and even when work is going well, something feels heavy.
✓ Your spouse isn't fully on board yet and you're still ready to start.
WHY I DO THIS
I almost lost my marriage. And because of that, I almost lost my business too.
Not in the way you might think. There was no scandal, no big betrayal. Just a slow drift.
I was building. Kelsey was holding things together. I told myself the business was for us. She started saying less. The same conversation kept showing up, in different words, every month for years. By the time I looked up, we were sleeping in the same bed and feeling miles apart.
And what I didn't see at the time was how much it was costing the business too. Some weeks I was working twice as hard for half the output. The same cycle at home was running underneath everything I was trying to build, and I had no language for it.
I didn't think about it this way then, but divorce, and the years of drag that come before it, is one of the most expensive things that can happen to a business. Many of the businesses I've watched go through it didn't recover. Mine wouldn't have either, if it had gotten there.
What saved us was a framework, the one I now teach. It gave us a name for the conflict cycle we were stuck in and a process for changing it.
The cycle stopped running the show. Kelsey and I became a team again, in life AND in business. Everything felt different at home. And work felt lighter too.
The business owners I coach are the version of me from five years ago. The work is the chance to put that version of myself in fewer people's living rooms.
I'm not a therapist who read a business book. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist who has built and sold companies, and I run a practice of 30 clinicians. I know both sides of your life.
If you're a business owner and the marriage is running underneath everything, let's talk.
Two free ways to start. Pick the one that fits where you are.
WHAT I DO
I coach married business owners.
One at a time. The work is one-on-one. Your spouse is welcome to learn alongside you, but they don't have to.
The work follows an order: first on you, then on your marriage. That's the order that works. And when home feels right, everything you've built gets easier to enjoy.
The Win at Home Masterclass
A free live training where I walk through the whole framework: the conflict cycle most couples never see and the one move that starts breaking it.
The Win at Home Diagnostic Call
A direct conversation about where your marriage and business are right now. We'll find the single move that unlocks the rest.
The Win at Home Accelerator
When you're ready to commit to the full work: three months of private coaching with me, one-on-one, with the full course and workbook included.
"We'd already seen two other marriage therapists when we found Brett. His approach was unlike anything we'd done before. It is the only thing that actually worked for us. I feel closer to my spouse than I have in years."
— DANIELLE & GIDEON · BUSINESS OWNER + CORPORATE MANAGER
WHERE THIS LEADS
